Will the real Shirley stand up?

I took a few days off to rest. My search seems like it is going to a halt each time I find a part of the puzzle. I feel like a girl that is in the middle of boxes of puzzles that are mixed together. I have a lot of pieces to Shirley but which Shirley is she. There is the Sanford who passes away in Denver in 2006. There is the Shirley birthday and who her mom was Luella Tanner. There is also the two stories from my family. And now this morning she might have been a Shirley W Myers. Married to a Jack Lee Myers in Nevada in in 1960. How hard could it be to find Shirley. I will keep searching until I find her.